At some point in the journey, every individual asks the question, “what is this all about?; what is the purpose? why are we here?”. If it doesn’t happen consciously during one’s life, then without fail it will happen in the time leading up to death. For those that ask the question consciously, and start to turn inwards, a smorgasbord of supports are there to assist the process. The choices are so mind-boggling that many seekers get confused whilst they go hopping from path to path.

Whilst it is useful to try different paths to see what suits the individual, it is important to remember that no single path or individual carries a monopoly towards the truth. Many people become stuck in a “rut” when they lose sight of the fact that the “goal is one and the paths are many”. When this occurs, blind belief in a system or guru ensues, and a spiritual fundamentalism arises.

However, the Chinese proverb states that “it is better to dig one deep well, rather than many shallow wells”. Thus a  dilemma arises. On the one hand we want to dig deep and give ourselves the best chance of progress, whilst on the other hand we don’t wish to be “trapped” by a movement, organisation or guru. What to do?

The best guide that one can have is the inner beacon. It is important to develop the ability to quieten the turbulent waves of the mind, so that this inner beacon can be seen, heard and felt loud and clear. There will be times that it guides you to journey solo, and times when it takes you with the help of a group, guru or movement. The important thing is that you follow your tune and not someone elses. The minute you hear, “this way is the only way”; or “if you don’t do it like this there will be karmic consequences; or “if you leave you will regret the day” then turn around and run like the wind. These are all malevolent forces that attempt to use guilt, brainwashing, fear and coercion for their own pecuniary needs.

The journey of life can be challenging enough on the physical plane. Don’t let the spiritual journey be harder than it needs to. The difference between frustration and fulfillment is a fine line indeed. As we enter into a New Year, wishing you much fulfillment in all you pursuits!